qualification : A condition or circumstance that must be met or complied with (dictionary.com)
fan : an enthusiastic devotee, follower, or admirer of a sport, pastime, celebrity, etc. (dictionary.com)
So, all props goes to www.dictionary.com for defining the words above.|| Do you think you qualify? || That’s the question I want you to answer.|| We, often as humans, admire the special talents and beauty of people we see before us (celebrities, athlete, or just a friend in general). || They can be defined as role models, someone we look up to, yes? || And when they make a small mistake, a simple mistake, or even making a decision we, or you as an individual don’t necessary approve on, we, or you as an individual, will cause a scene, make a fuss, argue. || We all fall into this trap, its something that everyone experience, so don’t be afraid to admit it.|| Think about this, every role model had to give an impact on a person before they become a role model. So, why are we trying to change their actions, and the ways the choose to be? If that is how it ends, why not we just be our own role models? || In every situations there are sides, one or the other. And most of the time, the different sides don’t get along, and that is when it comes falling down. I understand that everyone has their own opinion, and different ways of viewing things, and different ways of thinking things through. But, just because a situation has two sides doesn’t mean that the sides have to argue. Its clear that as humans, we have the tendency to labels things. We label every single thing there is. And it all comes down to two words. Win and Lose. Isn’t it? We fight for our side to prove that our side is better, we want to win. And then we get so caught up in the circle of fighting and arguing, we forget the true meaning being a fan.|| What ever happened to the time when being a fan meant to the person succeed. To do their best of their ability with our support, to put their happiness before our demands. And for them to have the freedom to control what they do and decisions they make, with happy supporting fans, to back them up. || But, no, this day, we are so caught up with what we want from them, that something so important is forgotten. We need to learn not to put our wants in front of what makes them happy, and though time and time again, we might end up disappointed, we need to face reality. || I’m not saying we can support our sides, and don’t have hope in them. I’m saying, accept the person you choose to be your role model as they are, face reality, and be the better person. ||
-I by no means have any right to tell you do you anything, anything at all. This blog was written to maybe open the eyes of few, and maybe lead others into different thinking. Please, do not get me wrong, I am not trying to control anyone or anybody whatsoever. This was all written by opinion. Thank you for taking your time out to read this, it is very much appreciated-
